2009 Young Family Newsletter

2009, Wow, is it really almost over? And a crazy one it has been. We did however go the whole year without a stay in the hospital and since the year isn’t over yet, I am sooooooo knocking on wood right now!!


We started out this year in search of a cure for whatever was wrong with Jerika. She was really struggling in school and yet they would not let her have any special help anymore. I know she is going to kill me for putting this in our newsletter, but it was one of our biggest struggles this year. Well, our first appointment was on January 19 and after several other appointments, meetings with the powers that be at the Jr. High (who I might mention don’t really love me anymore) we finally found out in the middle of June what was wrong with her. She has ADD and the reason it was so hard to figure out is because she didn’t have any of the hyper that usually goes with ADD. After trying a few different meds, we have finally found the right ones and she is now getting amazing grades in school, has lost roughly 30 pounds and is a much happier person. This summer she started taking voice lessons and loves it!! Also, this summer she spent her very first night ever in a tent. Our young womens had ward camp this year and the girls got to sleep in tents for 3 nights and had no showers, power, etc. It was a fun experience for both her and I. Jerika is my total right hand man around here and I don’t know what I would do without her. She has spent a lot more time away from home this year with her friends and we really do miss her when she is gone. I am not ready for this teenage stuff.


Kinlee is taking dance again this year and really loves it. She is in the 3rd grade and has 16 boys in her class with only 6 girls. That being said, she one of the smartest kids in her class. I go help at her class every other Friday and I am amazed at what she knows. She is one smart cookie. I have even heard Jerika asking her how to spell things on occasion. One of the highlights in her world is Activity Days every other Monday. She has really fun leaders and she loves to go. She keeps us on our toes here at home however. She was sick last week so I took her to the doctor and the nurse asked her if she was allergic to anything and she told the nurse she is allergic to cleaning her room. Which I am beginning to think really might be true. When her dad is home, she is joined to his hip and hangs out with him the whole time. I almost feel a little invisible sometimes. But, she sure loves her dad and misses him like crazy when he is gone.


We haven’t seen very much of Tyler this year. At the end of last year he wanted to move in with us, so we let him live here for about 4 weeks. He really did struggle with following the rules and suffering the consequences when he didn’t follow the rules. As a result, he moved back home to live with his mom. He got him a job and didn’t talk to us very much for the next few months. Long story short, he has gotten himself into some trouble and we are just constantly praying for him would love it if everyone else could pray for him also. We are hoping he will learn from his mistakes and make a better life for himself soon.


The company Ray worked at for the last 8ish years told him in June they were going to go another direction in their business and let some of their truck drivers go. So, we were left without a job. He found one that day and we were really thankful for that fact, but I think that we were worse off with that job than not having one at all. It was horrible!! He worked there for 3 months and during that 3 months, we only saw him about 4 times. I am forever in debt to a friend who told me of a job opening in Teton, about 5 minutes from our house. After quite a few phone calls, he got a job at Gould Trucking and he loves it!! He is home every weekend and some weeks he comes home 1 night during the week also, so we love it too. This summer, he did ride his dirt bike a few times, but since he was working all the time he didn’t get to do that as much as he likes.  We are all really enjoying the extra time we get to spend with him!!


As for me, this year has been really busy. Along with running Jerika to doctors and helping at Kinlee’s school, going to girls camp, making watch bands, playing bunco twice a month and working, I have been to Utah twice. The first time to Women’s Conference at BYU, which was amazing, and once during spud harvest just to get out. My adventures through the year can be tracked in my blog, which I try update on a regular basis. The link to that is youngmom1220.blogspot.com, so feel free to look on there any time. In June they put me in the Young Womens as personal progress specialist, and then in October they put me in as the 1st Counselor in the Young Womens and then I guess they were just breaking me in, because the first week of December they put me in as the Young Women’s President. Nobody was more surprised than me!! I even asked the Bishop if he was sure, which Ray didn’t think was very funny at all. So, if anyone has amazing ideas for young womens, let me know, I need all the help I can get!! One other thing I have tried this year is Zumba which is Latin dance exercise classes, I have been a few times and if I am really ambitious, I will continue doing that next year too. So, as you can see it has been an amazing year and we have all kept pretty busy!!


Merry Christmas from our house to yours and we hope you all have an amazing 2010.